Clare Palgrave – Energy therapist and coach – London and Herefordshire

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Energy balancing and how it works- part two

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This is the second part of a talk I gave to a small group of consultants and doctors at my local hospice.

For the first part, see here.

A little more about how it works 

I guess you probably have one of three predominant belief systems:

1 There is nothing that exists apart from our physical bodies, what we can see and what we can touch. (The atheist approach)

2 There is a God, and it takes a specific form, which may be religiously or culturally mediated. (The believer)

3 You are sitting on the fence and are not sure. (The agnostic).

For many years I was an atheist, then I became an agnostic, and then, when I started this work in energy balancing I became a believer – or a knower, in reality. But I became a knower because things happened that I know could not have happened if there had not been some form of consciousness at work that was larger than me and the client combined as physical beings.


  • My daughter feeling magnetically drawn across the room.
  • People reporting quite vivid experiences when I offered distance energy therapy. Things like, feeling somebody’s hands on their feet when there was nobody else in the room.
  • Even when touching people there is obviously something much more significant going on than just therapeutic touch. People see strong and vivid colours while they have their eyes closed, feel strong energy currents in their bodies, or sensations of heat or extreme cold.
  • Or, if my hands are close to but not touching their body, people may report that they can feel intense warmth from my hands. On checking the temperature of my hands immediately afterwards they confirm that my hands feel at normal temperature, and my experience of them is that they were at that temperature all during the session.
  • Or feeling another set of hands on their body as well as my own, when there is no-one else in the room.

None of these experiences are ones that I could induce voluntarily. And not everyone has these sorts of experiences, but they have been often enough for me to accept that there is something larger than me acting.

So, what IS it that is acting?

When I started meditating I felt quite comfortable with the concept of connecting with ‘the collective consciousness’. For me, if I had to describe what that looked like visually it would have been a large grey blanket, fairly uniform in look, that connected to all humanity. At the time, it seemed to work as a concept – it explained how I could access answers to problems by going into a quiet space, but there was something lacking though I was not able to qualify what.

But over the years of personal exploration I came to understand that, though consciousness may start out as undifferentiated, all uniform, it becomes increasingly differentiated through layers and layers until we, become manifest as units of consciousness condensed into physical form.

As this picture started emerging, through contemplation, reading, and other explorations, I came to understand that the layers of differentiation in consciousness each had multiple separate beings, each of which had their own particular range of interests and agendas to fulfill their personal desire for growth. (Remember, this is being described conceptually in a way that I as a human, can describe. I am sure it lacks subtlety seen from a larger perspective!)

And, if that were the case, then what we are connecting to as we expand our consciousness through meditation or energy balancing work, is extending our connection with the next layer up in differentiated consciousness – that part of the larger consciousness that is responsible for helping us to form as human beings. I call that next layer up our larger self, our core self, our inner being, and some people call it their higher self, though that is not a phrase I feel comfortable with.

This larger or core self is not physical, it is pure consciousness, non physical consciousness, though not pure undifferentiated consciousness. This is the part of ourselves that we lose contact with. This loss of contact renders us feeling lost and lacking in direction, which can then result in ill health and emotional isolation.

Once we start to strengthen that connection with our core self we start to gain access to a wider range of energies (which is really just another way of saying consciousness) and so we feel more whole, and more ‘connected’. More connected to ourselves, and so more connected to others.

So, my understanding, verified by the experiences I have had working with this, is that when these unusual experiences that recipients report happen – when they happen, they are effectively energies being manipulated by my and the recipients’ core beings to demonstrate that there is a larger range of consciousness in play.

And if the core beings, our core beings, can do that, then they can also, being non physical consciousness, and not limited by time and distance as we in physical form are, they/we can transmit energies between one another very easily. And this is the mechanism for long distance healing.

So, who is this work – energy balancing – for?

Well it seems to me, it could be for everyone! Certainly for those who wish to grow. It is part of our development path – to become more conscious of our wider consciousness, our core being. To become more sensitive to what is going on in our bodies, our surroundings, our fellow humans, and even beyond that. To become more aware of subtle energies and to connect to an increasingly wide range of subtle energies.

For many people, as it was for me when I first came across the concept, simply experiencing something different and something that could not be voluntarily invoked, was transformative. Whether it is just experiencing a deep sense of peace, seeing colours swirling in front of their eyes, feeling non physical hands, or energy currents in their bodies, is a deeply transforming experience.

It reinforces, and reminds us, that we are much more than the physical bodies we have assumed we are. That there is always more out there in the non physical world, that we can make contact with. As we make that contact, each and every one of us, we increase the effectiveness of bringing that wider range of consciousness and energy down into the world, and making it concrete by embodying it as part of ourselves.

And that brings me back to where I started out when I embarked on this journey of learning about energy work- my desire to find a way to make an impact at a distance, as the Eastern mystics did.

If you would like to experience this greater sense of connection for yourself through energy balancing, then please contact me. I work with people all over the world.


Author: clarepalgrave

I'm interested in promoting simple and effective ways to meditate, tools for maintaining balance in life, and opportunities for you to grow into your highest expression of yourself. I offer energy/spiritual therapy/healing, an energetic alignment called the Tonal Alignment, and Neurolinguistic based tools to assist you in connecting with a larger sense of yourself.

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